Nov 20 Reflection

Avoiding pain is more painful than the pain.

 

Think before react

 

You have to find the responsibility that drives you.

 

People don't remember what you did.

 

The ability to receive a lot of feedbacks

Pain, hurt -> stop people from receiving feedback

short-run: lose your face

long-run: your future

 

Take feedback as pressure, challenge.

Ego problem -> They don't know what they want

If you don't know how to react, you don't have responsibility

 

They are not aggressive enough to do 

If I have a problem, chat in the group chat

 

 

Come up with solutions not to let it happen again

Find the root problem

Being aggressive with how you learn

 

YOU ARE JUST NOT TRYING TO FIGURE OUT YOURSELF

 

what's the difference between me and people who are ahead of me.

Life is descending escalator 

 

If you put problems on other people, you feel good but you don't get good

If you feel you don't want to face a problem, that's why you have to deal with it.

 

 

Observe and reflect on yourself